Have you ever wonder when you love someone soo much you wanted to give everything you can and you know your not a billionaire or a superhuman that have superpower and what you can do is very limited. Then you begin to think what can you do in your limited power to make the one you love happy? with so little to offer.
I am from the same group of people where my power is limited and of coz I'm not the daughter of a billionaire. The one thing that i know to make the one that i love happy in times of sadness, is not by cheering them up with expensive gifts or carrying them a brand new BMW with one arm while flying in the air using my superhuman ability to entertain them so they laugh until they cannot breath, but simply make them smile and forget for a little moment that they are in sadness and there is this small light of happiness even thought they are in total darkness. To make them feel good with just being with me of who i am.
then what happen if you cannot make the one that you love smile anymore? the only thing that you can do is the only thing that you cannot do. what do i do then?
I feel depress. Really depress because i believe in my everyday life that i would want to make a person smile regardless on who they are and i always do that and i always succeed in doing that. Now i fell it no more. Am i losing it? Am i losing myself of who i am? is it because of what I'm dealing now is affecting who i am? i don't feel like I'm making other people happy, i don’t feel like I am me and most importantly i cannot make the one i love smile in his time of need and i call myself his special someone.
i do love him soo much but if i cannot make him smile in his time of need then I'm afraid I'm not the one for him. if i cannot even make him smile then how am i going to keep what we have alive? its a very long journey for us and both party have to do their own part. so even the smallest thing of making him smile i cannot do, then what can i do for him? seems like nothing and this is killing me.
When we were still friend, he told me that i make him smile or make him laugh when he was down and i did it unconsciously. i was happy that i made a person's day a little brighter when it was dark. but now when i am with him, i cannot even make him smile the thought of this makes me sad. the only thing i can think to comfort myself is that he need time and i understand that. But all i want do is to make you smile and nothing else.
I know I'm not rich or own a superhuman power, there is nothing else I want to do except make you smile.
u had good attention n u made action to it. it is well appreciated on what u did n i believe that guy is really lucky to have u by his side. n i can guarantee that the guy did smile n u cheered him well enough. u can give him light in in moment of sorrow. is just that he didnt tell u cuz there's something in his mind on what he is goin to do next, the reason for that is because u gave him hope to move on n he knows that u will always be on his side :)
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